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The Wrong Word

Friends, Do you ever find yourself starting to say a word, realizing it’s the wrong choice and trying to change it while speaking — making it worse? For me, it’s happened more times than I care to admit. A recurring faux pas for me occurs at the part of the mass where the congregation says “when we eat this bread and drink this cup we proclaim your death, o Lord, until you come again”. For some reason my brain wants to say “profess” instead of “proclaim” — which would essentially mean the same thing. Unfortunately, in my clumsy attempts to fix my mistake mid-word, what comes out sounds like “profane” — totally the wrong vibe. Good thing the entire congregation is saying the same thing in unison. If someone heard me they might think the priest was consecrating a donut, instead of the host. Happy Friday!
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Things that go bump in the night

Friends, The older I get, the more elusive a good night's rest has become. As a naturally light sleeper, it doesn't take much to wake me -- and even though my Apple watch may claim I get eight hours most evenings, I find that claim suspect. Lately, I've been starting to see the small interruptions to my slumber in a whole new light. In a way, I am grateful for them. Let me explain: A table lamp and low volume real crime show past my bedtime are a welcome sign that I don't have to sleep alone. That sore shoulder waking me up at midnight makes me glad I'm in good health. Two spoiled dogs scratching the door to be let out at 2 are a small price to pay for the unconditional affection they give us. That forgotten task my mind inevitably remembers at 3:21 makes me grateful I have a job I enjoy doing. The low battery beeping in the smoke alarm at 4 reminds me I am fortunate enough to have a roof over my head. The door slamming shut before dawn brings a smile to my face, kn...

To meme or not to meme

Friends, All the hubbub about memecoins might $TUMP some and $MELL-ANIA a little funky to others. Personally, it dragged me down a rabbit hole — “research” is way too generous a word — that crash-landed on a site called pump.fun. This site lets anybody with cash to burn buy into a gazillion available offers. You can even start your own memecoin, if you’re so inclined. As I perused the potential portfolio, a few things struck me. It takes zero talent or taste to launch a memecoin. Way too many people have way too much time and money to burn. Donuts are a surprisingly popular meme. As you get your morning started, may I suggest a hot black coffee, a sweet, flaky cronut — and if you’re tempted to “invest” in a meme, come on down to my place, you can save some time and flush your money down my toilet. Happy Friday!

Of Snake oil Salesmen and Sensory Mindfulness

Friends, As we slither into the new lunar year I’ve decided to tune out the new brood of vipers on Capitol Hill and tune into the little things that make me smile. The magical frost turning ordinary branches into fairy tale forests. The spectacular sunsets painting the cloud canvas shades of gold leaf, blood orange and coral pink. My granddaughter’s joie de vivre, generosity and spontaneous laughter that melt my heart every time. And of course that first bite into a raised chocolate frosted donut. Mmm … that’s what I’m talking about! Happy Friday!

Live. Love. Eat Donuts.

  Friends, From the Premier League and F1 clique to the College Football and NASCAR crowd, we all share the human experience. Whether our mustard is yellow or Dijon, we all feel love, enjoy learning and experience loss in our own way. We have highs and lows, ups and downs. We’d like to feel immortal, yet we are limited, and time is our most precious asset. We are all alone and all of us need to live with ourselves. So be kind, don’t take yourself too seriously and don’t forget to laugh. Laugh at misunderstandings and silly mistakes. Laugh with friends and family. Laugh ‘till it hurts. And remember to have a donut –whether it’s Dunkin’ or Krispy Kreme or anywhere in between. I’m doing my part by heading to We Knead Donut and meeting with my good friend and former colleague Marilyn. What’s yours? Happy Friday!

Putting the TAR back in avaTAR

Friends, There’s no easy way to say this, so I’m just gonna blurt it out: I can’t stand Facebook avatars and stickers. There, I said it! Before you get upset, I understand and respect that folks post these cartoon images as a way to share their good wishes and show they care. I also acknowledge that as we get older, we tend to grumble about silly things. Yes, this is a silly thing to be writing about. Yes, I will grumble under my breath if I see you post one. Yes, I would prefer you write something instead of picking a cheesy image. But no, I won't unfriend you if you do. I realize taste is subjective: take the   donut shop in New Hampshire  fighting for their right to keep their mural depicting a mountain range made of donuts. Is it free speech? Is it a zoning violation? One thing I think we all can agree on is that it's beautiful -- as are the donuts they sell. 

Places and Permanence

Friends, Letting go of the people, places and passions that have shaped our lives is tough. Each is different and any analogy feels like comparing apples and origins – you read right, oranges felt too similar for such an analogy. People are obviously more important, but some places hold a special tug on our heartstrings. There is comfort in the sense of permanence they bring, shielding us from the passage of time. Which makes the void they leave behind unfillable – no matter how many donuts you eat to try to fill it. Still, life goes on and we find a way to move forward. Change is, after all, the only constant. Happy Friday!